Deadsplinter Up! All Night: Gone Are the Days

While this song is written in the voice of a man who wants a woman to move on to him, some lines speak to the human condition today. We all need contact and kindness and basic levels of safety.

For some of us, COVID-19 induced new levels of day-to-day uncertainty, or perhaps renewed them. I’ve not felt this amount of underlying anxiety, or been this unsettled and unsure since I was in my 20’s and dirt poor and in an unhappy marriage.

Here are the lines of encouragement from this song:

No looking back from here on in
Let’s move you on to better things
‘Cause you deserve more than you think
Forget everything you’re told
There’s greener grass and denser gold

I hope that we will see these days gone soon, but reality calls and says that our lives and activities are forever changed. I used to ironically joke that I was in college before sex and drugs could kill you – while not quite true, my wild days did happen before aids and crack. Now I wonder if we will be the last group of folks to have safely enjoyed large concerts, or public spaces without masks.

I wish you each a soft, gentle, kind evening. Thank you for your support of DUAN.

This one too: Everybody is a little bit broken but it’s alright by the Woods Brothers. Sounds vaguely Little Feat-esque.

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  1. Mary Hopkin – Those Were The Days:

    Released on: 1969-02-21
    Producer: Paul McCartney
    Associated Performer, Vocalist, Guitar: Mary Hopkin
    Composer: Gene Raskin

    and the almost 50 years later,

    Mary Hopkin – Those Were The Days:

    Released on: 2018-08-30
    Mixer: Morgan Visconti
    Composer: Boris Fomin
    Music Publisher: ESSEX MUSIC INC/ TRO ESSEX MUSIC LTD
    Lyricist: Eugene Raskin

  2. Bloc Party – Positive Tension

    and one guy that can always lift your mood and provide positive vibes, Pato Banton – Stay Positive

  3. Grayson Capps – Get Back Up

    This was my theme song for a number of years, when the shit seemed like it would never stop and I needed some motivation.

    I met Grayson after Hurricane Katrina had flooded out the area where he and his band lived. So, homeless, they did the only thing they could do: go on tour. They appeared on that radio show I was doing post-production for. A bunch of the songs on this album gave me the impression that he dealt with a lot of the same stuff I had; and not feeling like I’m the only one has generally done a lot to get me off my pity pot and moving forward again.

  4. The Factory – “Gone”

  5. just because

    and it seems that we’re

    …it’s time to

    and

    in order to

    because only

  6. “And if only I could tell everyone alive
    That light is real and the heart is right and it’s not a lie”

    Florist – If Blue Could Be Happiness

  7. Things look bad, for sure

    But I refuse to succumb to self-pity

    Anyway, we’re gonna be OK, unless we’re not, but worrying won’t help

  8. I blew it on the theme. I was focusing on feeling better instead of the gone and over part. I’ve mostly been craving pretty music lately. But anyway
    Cream – Those Were the Days

    • I’m horrible with the theme thing…would this count?

      “The best is the past”

    • Great thing about DUAN is you can’t have a wrong answer. You could go with whatever theme floats your boat in Elliecoo’s great post. I was trying to go with the positive thing since I needed that right now but could have easily gone with the gone thing since right now I want to social distance myself from some of the family…

  9. Theme is always loose. And you never know when a dance party will breakout.

    • Did you say dance party?
      Grace Jones – Pull Up To The Bumper

      • Dance party! Do Your Thing!

  10. You don’t have to change the whole damn thing, just leave it a little better

  11. It’s just as well we don’t know
    When things will never be that good again

    • It just crossed my twitter feed, so I popped over to make sure it got shared over here, and THANKS!💖😉😁

  12. Sam Cooke tonight. It’s not Saturday, but the songs kinda fit the theme, and I love ’em😉

    And because at least we always have the party over here😉

    • 83% desmond hume…from a show i have never seen

    • My closest match (86%) was apparently McLovin’ from Superbad…
      Still haven’t gotten to see that movie😉
      Next closest was a 4-way tie at 84%, of Luna Lovegood from HP, Ed from Cowboy Bebop, Damian from Mean Girls, and Abby from NCIS.

      Annnnd, after reading what folks thought of the personality breakouts of those characters, I’d say YEP! Pretty accurate.

      I’m an optimistic weirdo, and sometimes a total flake, who can be incredibly stubborn (and yet, gets shit DONE, when necessary!😉).

      Looking at all 5 of those characters’ breakdowns, YEAH, lots of that stuff fits me!😆😂🤣

      • So…you sleep in a coffin is basically what you’re saying 😛

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